Forced Marriage

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  • What is forced marriage (arranged marriage, exchange marriage, and servile marriage)

  • Sources of support

  • Coming soon

What is Forced Marriage?

Forced marriage refers to situations where a person or has been forced to marry without giving their consent freely for example:

·         physical, emotional, or financial duress;

·         deception (by family members, the spouse, or others);

·         force, threats or severe pressure.

A marriage can also become a forced marriage if both parties enter with full consent but one or both are later forced to remain married against their will.

Arranged marriage is distinguished from forced marriage by the presence of consent of both parties. However, these marriages can become forced marriages where coercion exists, for example including exchange or trade-off marriages, servile marriages, and levirate marriages.

Exchange marriages involves an arranged, reciprocal exchange of spouses between two groups (tribes, families etc). It includes sister exchange, where two sets of siblings marry each other. In order to marry, a man must persuade his sister to marry his bride's brother. These bride exchanges often help settle debts or avoid bride price or dowry.

This kind of ‘trade off’ marriage, can also happen more overtly – a bride is provided to pay off a debt.

Servile marriage is listed in United Nations’ Conventions as “a practice similar to slavery.” Servile marriage involves a person being sold, transferred or inherited into a marriage. A young woman might be sold for money or other payment, or could be sold on to someone else or be inherited by another person if her husband dies. They are sometimes forced to marry wealthy, often older, men to become sexual and domestic slaves. (A levirate marriage is where the brother of a deceased man and the man's widow are obliged to marry.)

Anti-Slavery International points out that a form of servile marriage is practiced in Ethiopia: a man rapes an underage girl, then goes to her father and demands the girl as his wife. Both father and rape victim must agree, as supposedly no other man will marry her.

Forced marriage disproportionately affects women in the UK. Men account for 26% of victims, and are particularly represented in cases where the victim has mental capacity concerns (57% of males).

Almost one in four victims of forced marriage in the UK were male (2021 government statistics).

Unseen charity estimates that 22 million people are in forced marriages

71% of known victims of forced marriage in the UK were under 25 (2021 government statistics)

Forced Marriage, Grooming?

People are groomed into forced marriages when they are unaware that this is the end game of say, a family visit or a trip abroad. Forced marriage does sometimes get blamed on culture or certain religions, but is not exclusive to any particular religion or group of people, and is common in cults. Freely given consent is a prerequisite of the most common religions including Christian, Jewish, Hindu, Muslim and Sikh marriages.

The intent: the person they are marrying ,or the people/organisation forcing them to marry, may often feel it is for the victims ‘good’, but have not considered the person’s wishes.

Consent: consent is not being freely given by the victim - even if they apparently agreed at the time, their consent has been manufactured.

  • Forced Marriage of People with Learning Difficulties

    Information and research presented by the Ann Craft Trust: https://www.anncrafttrust.org/research/forced-marriage/

  • First Man Jailed for Forced Marriage in UK

    Forced marriage was criminalised under the Anti-social Behaviour, Crime and Policing Act 2014, which came into force in June 2014.

    A 34 year old man who forced a woman to marry him became the first person to be jailed under forced marriage laws. He is a savage - he raped her, stalked her, filmed her without her knowing, threatened to make public intimate videos.

    His name is protected - he doesn’t deserve it - but full credit to the woman who escaped him and got him off the streets and then out on license.

    The Guardian

Sources of support

  • The Forced Marriage Unit (FMU) leads the government’s forced marriage policy, outreach and casework. It works in the UK (where support is provided to any individual) and overseas (assistance is provided to British nationals, including dual nationals).

    It operates a public helpline to provide advice and support to victims and potential victims of forced marriage (and concerned professionals).

    The helpline can help with: safety advice; helping when an unwanted spouse is due to move to the UK (‘reluctant sponsor’ cases); the repatriation of victims held against their will overseas

    https://www.gov.uk/guidance/forced-marriage

  • Help and support for those who are experiencing or know someone experiencing honour-based violence (HBV) or forced marriage.

    Open 24/7: Live Fear Free Forced Marriage

  • The Modern Slavery Helpline and Resource Centre is working towards a world without slavery by supporting, equipping and influencing. Tel: 08000 121 700

  • The Muslim Women’s Network offers a helpline offering help and support to both women and to men and boys facing forced marriage.

  • Men's Advice Line: A confidential helpline for men experiencing domestic violence from a partner or ex-partner (or from other family members) Tel: 0808 801 0327

  • Unseen fights all kinds of modern slavery including forced marriage.

    Their helpline number is 08000 121 700, and there are numerous resources and ways to ask for help on the Unseen website.

  • For many kinds of support for victims, including preparing to report to the police and preparing for court, try Victim Support

Coming soon:

  • Cases of forced marriage

  • UK law